
A generation with its head down
Recently I sat in a restaurant with my wife and watched young couples sitting face to face, a few feet apart, each looking down at a glowing screen. They were together in body and absent in mind. At their age, my generation was learning how to hold a conversation, read a face, and look both ways before crossing a street.
I taught mathematics to teenagers in Vancouver for 23 years, and I have spent my life trusting numbers over impressions. So I asked a simple question: is what I saw an old man’s grumble, or a measurable crisis for our young people? The numbers point to two real dangers: to their physical safety, and to their health of body and mind.
The first danger is on our streets. Teenagers cross intersections with their eyes on a phone and earbuds in. Young drivers glance at a message at 50 km/h. In France and across North America, those glances have ended young lives, and the lives of innocent people around them.
Danger one: young lives on the road
France’s road safety authority, the Sécurité routière, reports that the phone is involved in at least one road accident in ten. Reading or writing a text while driving multiplies the risk of a crash by about 23. (L’argus, La Tribune Auto)
| What the driver does | Effect on crash risk or attention | Source |
|---|---|---|
| Talks on the phone | Crash risk about 3 times higher | Sécurité routière |
| Reads or writes a text | Crash risk about 23 times higher | Sécurité routière |
| Any phone conversation | 30% to 50% less information taken in from the road | Sécurité routière |
| Phone use, all forms | Involved in at least 1 accident in 10 in France | Sécurité routière |
The young are the worst offenders. In 2019, 70% of French drivers admitted using a mobile at the wheel, but among drivers aged 18 to 24 the figure reached 83%. Back in 2004, only 22% of all drivers admitted phoning while driving. (L’argus) A newly licensed driver, already inexperienced, who adds a phone to the mix is a danger to everyone on the road.
North America tells the same story. In the United States, the NHTSA counted 3,308 people killed and about 289,310 injured in 2022 in crashes involving distracted drivers, and 621 of the dead were pedestrians, cyclists and others outside the vehicle. (Yahoo Autos, citing NHTSA) Drivers aged 18 to 34 are more likely to die in distraction-affected crashes than any other age group, which is why the agency now aims its enforcement at them. (KSHB, on NHTSA) The agency also warns these crashes are underreported, because many drivers will not admit they were on the phone. (Transport Topics)
Young pedestrians face the mirror image of the same danger. A teenager crossing against traffic with earbuds in and eyes on a screen has switched off both of the senses that keep a person alive on a city street: sight and hearing. When a distracted driver meets a distracted pedestrian, nobody is watching at all.
Danger two: the loneliest generation
The second danger is invisible but just as deadly. The World Health Organization now treats loneliness as a global health threat: its Commission on Social Connection reported in June 2025 that loneliness is linked to more than 871,000 deaths a year, roughly 100 every hour, and that it doubles the risk of depression. (WHO)
The young are not spared; they are the loneliest. Between 17% and 21% of people aged 13 to 29 report feeling lonely, with teenagers the highest of all, and the report names excessive screen time and harmful online interactions among its concerns. (The Star, on the WHO report, APP, on the WHO report)
The clock tells the rest. In the United States, people aged 15 to 24 went from about an hour a day of face-to-face socializing to 35 minutes over the last 20 years, the steepest drop of any age group. Today, teens report spending an average of 4.8 hours a day on social media apps. (Axios, July 2026)
We used to think of loneliness as the burden of the elderly. Today a 16-year-old with 800 online “friends” may be lonelier than her grandmother. Time once spent with friends and neighbours has moved to the screen, and loneliness has moved in behind it.
Why our daughters pay the highest price
Among American high-school girls, the share reporting persistent sadness or hopelessness rose from 36% in 2011 to 57% in 2021, while for boys it rose from 21% to 29%. In 2023 the girls’ figure eased slightly, to 53%, which is still more than half. (CDC Youth Risk Behavior Survey 2023)
The platforms knew a good part of this. In 2021 the Wall Street Journal published Facebook’s own internal research on Instagram. One slide read that the company made body-image issues worse for one in three teen girls who already had them. Other internal findings said teens blamed Instagram for rising anxiety and depression, and that Instagram was built around more social comparison than rival apps. (Malwarebytes)
In fairness, Facebook replied that some of that research rested on small groups of teens and that, on most issues studied, more girls said Instagram helped than hurt. (Digit) But the company’s own staff had raised the alarm, and the public learned of it only through a leak.
The “star” illusion works on a simple mechanism. Every like, follower and view is a small, unpredictable reward. A girl who posts a photo is not sharing a moment with a friend; she is waiting for a score. A thousand followers can feel like fame, yet none of them will bring soup when she is sick or sit with her when she is sad. Real friends do that, and real friends are exactly what the scrolling crowds out.
Was it done on purpose? Why the young are the prime target
The honest answer is: not as a plot, but by design. I have found no evidence of a secret plan to turn people, or young women in particular, into zombies. What the evidence does show is something more ordinary and, in a way, more troubling: a business model.
Social media is free because we are not the customers; advertisers are. The platforms sell attention, and the most valuable attention of all belongs to the young. A teenager who forms the habit at 13 can be a customer for 60 years. So features are tested and tuned to keep young users there: the endless feed, autoplay, streaks that punish a day away, the red notification dot, the counter of likes.
The man who invented infinite scroll in 2006, Aza Raskin, has said publicly that he regrets it. He has estimated that it wastes on the order of 100,000 human lifetimes every day, and he blames the machinery that took up his idea to maximize engagement. (ReThinking with Adam Grant, TED) Even allowing for exaggeration, the order of magnitude is staggering.
And the young are the least equipped to resist. The part of the brain that governs self-control keeps maturing into the mid-twenties, while the hunger for peer approval peaks in adolescence. Girls are hit hardest not because anyone set out to harm them, but because the most profitable content for that audience is built on appearance, comparison and popularity. An algorithm that learns what keeps a 14-year-old girl watching will keep feeding her the images that make her feel she must measure up.
A word of scientific honesty belongs here, because a teacher of statistics must say it. Researchers still debate how much of the rise in youth anxiety is caused by phones, as opposed to merely accompanying it. Jonathan Haidt (The Anxious Generation) argues the link is strong and causal; psychologists such as Candice Odgers and Amy Orben argue the measured effects are smaller and that other pressures matter too. Correlation is not causation. But we do not wait for perfect proof before telling drivers to stop drinking, and the precautionary measures below cost very little.
What a mathematician sees in these numbers
Numbers only alarm us when we translate them into a life. Here are four simple calculations any secondary student could check.
1. The lost years. At 4.8 hours a day on social media, a teenager spends 4.8 × 365 = 1,752 hours a year. That is 73 full days, or more than ten weeks of every year, awake and alone with a screen. A Canadian school year has roughly 1,000 hours of instruction, so the feed receives about 1.75 times more of a child’s time than the classroom.
2. The blind distance. A car at 50 km/h travels about 13.9 metres per second. Reading a short message takes about 3 to 5 seconds, so the driver crosses 42 to 70 metres blind, the length of a city block. At 100 km/h on the highway, 5 seconds means about 139 metres, longer than a football field, with nobody watching the road.
3. Small risks add up. A single distracted trip is rarely fatal, which is exactly why people repeat it. But risk compounds. If a habit carries a probability p of a crash on each trip, the probability of at least one crash over n trips is:
P = 1 - (1 - p)^n
Take a young driver who gets a licence at 17 and texts on two trips a day until the age of 27, so n = 7,300 trips. With an illustrative risk of 1 in 100,000 per trip, P ≈ 1 − e^(−0.073) ≈ 7%: one chance in fourteen of a crash during the first ten years of driving, from a habit the driver believes is harmless. Multiply the risk per trip by 23, as texting does, and the danger is no longer a small number.
4. The lonely seats in every classroom. The WHO finds that 17% to 21% of people aged 13 to 29 feel lonely. In a typical class of 30 students, that is 30 × 0.17 ≈ 5 to 30 × 0.21 ≈ 6 young people. Picture five or six empty faces in every room of every school, each surrounded by classmates and yet alone. Every teacher has met them; most of us did not know how many there were.
Concrete measures: what works, and who must act
Governments have finally begun to move, which proves that action is possible. France leads Europe.
| Where | Measure | When |
|---|---|---|
| France | Parliament adopted a ban on social networks for children under 15, passed 279 to 81; platforms must verify age, with no penalty on children or parents. The same law extends the phone ban from collèges to lycées. (Selectra) | Adopted 21 July 2026 |
| France | Ban applies to new accounts first, then to all existing accounts. (Médias24) | Sept 2026, then Jan 2027 |
| Australia | Social media banned for under-16s; in June 2026 the maximum fine on platforms that circumvent it was doubled to about A$99 million. (LNC, AFP) | Dec 2025 |
| British Columbia | All 60 school districts restrict student phone use “bell to bell.” (CBC) | Sept 2024 |
| United States | NHTSA’s “Put the Phone Away or Pay” campaign, with enforcement aimed at drivers aged 18 to 34. (KSHB) | April 2024 |
These laws are a start, and they have critics: some worry about privacy in age checks, and about teenagers simply moving to less regulated apps. (LNC, AFP) Those concerns deserve answers, not paralysis. Here is what I propose, actor by actor.
Governments and police
- Treat texting at the wheel with the same seriousness as drunk driving, in penalties and in social stigma: both kill innocent people, and both are entirely avoidable.
- Require new cars and phones to switch on a “driving mode” by default, silencing notifications when the vehicle moves.
- Fund road-safety campaigns that show real victims, as France’s Sécurité routière has done, and extend them to pedestrians near schools.
- Make loneliness a public-health priority with a national strategy, as the WHO now urges its member states to do.
Platforms
- For minors: no infinite scroll, no autoplay, no public like counts, and notifications off at night by default.
- Let every user set a daily time limit that the app respects, the very test Aza Raskin says he has asked companies to run.
- Publish internal research on harm to young users, so the public does not depend on leaks.
Schools
- Keep phones out of the school day, as B.C. and France now do.
- Teach the attention economy in class. A mathematics lesson on how a feed is optimized, or on compound risk, protects better than a lecture.
I can speak to this from my own classroom. Years before any government acted, I required every student to leave their phone in a box at the door and collect it on the way out. At first it made me unpopular. Within weeks the mood changed, because the results spoke for themselves: my junior and senior students alike showed outstanding performance, and many came to appreciate the hour of undivided attention. A box at the door costs nothing, and it works.
Families and each of us
- Make the dinner table and the restaurant phone-free. One simple game: everyone stacks phones in the middle, and the first to reach for one pays the bill.
- No phone in the hand while walking across a street, and none in reach while driving.
- Parents first: children copy what we do, not what we say.
- Rebuild the “third places”: clubs, choirs, sports, community centres, the neighbour’s front step. Loneliness is cured by people, not by apps.
Young people themselves
- Put the phone in your bag, not your pocket, whenever you cross a street; look up at every curb.
- Turn on “Do Not Disturb while driving” the day you get your licence, and keep it on.
- Count your real friends, the ones who would come if you called at midnight, and spend time with them in person every week.
- Turn off public like counts and notifications; you are not a score.
Conclusion: it is time to look up
Five conclusions stand out from the evidence.
- The danger to our young people is real and measurable. It shows up in road deaths, in loneliness and in the mental health of teenage girls, and it is recorded by road-safety authorities, the WHO and the CDC, not by impressions.
- It is not a conspiracy, but it is not an accident either. No one plotted to harm a generation, yet apps are deliberately designed to capture young attention, because that attention is what they sell.
- Science is still debating the exact share of blame, but that is no excuse to wait. When the risk is serious and prevention costs almost nothing, prudence says act now.
- Action works. France, Australia and British Columbia have shown that laws and school rules are possible, and a simple box at my classroom door showed what young people achieve once the phone is out of reach.
- The cure for loneliness is people, not apps. Laws can limit the damage, but only families, teachers and friends can give the young generation back its social life.
The phone is not evil. It brings us news, maps, medicine and the faces of grandchildren who live far away. The danger lies in a business model that profits from every minute we give it, and in our own willingness to give it everything.
The numbers are clear enough. At least one road accident in ten in France involves a phone, and drivers aged 18 to 34 are the most likely to die in distraction-affected crashes. Up to one young person in five feels lonely, and more than half of American teenage girls report persistent sadness. No society can shrug at those figures about its own children.
So I ask every parent, teacher and grandparent to do one small thing tonight. At dinner, put the phone away and look at the young person across the table. Ask a real question and wait for the answer. A generation that learns again to look up will be safer on our streets, healthier in mind, and far less alone.
Paul Sinclair is a retired mathematics teacher who taught for 23 years with the Vancouver School Board, and the author of the series The Perfect Math Tutor for All.
Sources
- WHO: Social connection linked to improved health and reduced risk of early death (June 2025)
- L’argus: Le smartphone, mouton noir de la sécurité routière
- La Tribune Auto: 1 accident corporel sur 10 lié au téléphone
- Yahoo Autos: NHTSA 2022 distracted-driving data
- Transport Topics: US traffic deaths 2023
- Axios: Americans of all ages are spending less time socializing (July 2026)
- CDC: Youth Risk Behavior Survey, 2023 Data Summary & Trends
- Malwarebytes: Facebook’s own research on Instagram
- Digit: Facebook’s response to the WSJ report
- TED, ReThinking with Adam Grant: Aza Raskin interview
- Selectra: France adopts under-15 social media ban
- Médias24: Calendrier de l’interdiction
- LNC (AFP): Australia doubles fines; critics of the French law
- CBC: B.C. brings in bell-to-bell school cellphone ban
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